Smooth interpersonal relationships

A fourth difference involves the eoncept of smooth interpersonal relationships. This is a noneonfrontational attitude and the desire not to receive or give a negative response. 

One of the three primary characteristics of smooth interpersonal relationships is stating an uipleasant truth or opinion in a maimer that is calculated to please, or broaching a potentially unpleasant situation or subject in a manner that allows the person to retreat. 

A second characteristic of smooth interpersonal relationships is the power that peers, groups, or family have in getting things that they want. Being accepted and doing what the gronp wants becomes more important than the one-on-one meeting that 1 have set np. 

A third characteristic of smooth interpersonal relationships is the use of a go-between as a mediator to help resolve difScult sitnations. This person uses tact and can get problems resolved for both sides without confrontation. This is just the opposite of what North Americans do, which can realty create some problems if we are not aware of it. 

Another part of smooth interpersonal relationships is telling you what they think you want to hear and not wanting to s no. 

What problems can smooth interpersonal relationships cause ... 

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