Electron mediator electrostatic repulsion

Why is such a trend observed Actually, the reason that hard acids and bases prefer to interact with each other is different than the reason that soft acids and bases prefer to interact. To see this, let s examine some mathematics that is meant to model the interaction between Lewis acids and bases in an early stage of their interaction. The analysis derives from pertur-bational molecular orbital theory (PMOT), which was briefly introduced in Chapter 1, and is explored in more depth in Chapter 14. In essence, three forces are considered to mediate the energy of interaction (Ej) between the acid and base as they approach each other in space (Eq. 5.28). One is the electrostatic repulsion between the electron clouds of the two entities, referred to as Ecore/ a positive destabilizing term. The second and third factors are both attractive and stabilizing. An electrostatic attraction between an acid and base occurs due to opposite charges on the acid and base this is called E s- Lastly, a term called Eoveriap/ which is related to the net overlap of the nucleophilic and electrophilic orbitals, is found to lower the energy of the system as the nucleophilic electrons delocalize into the empty electrophilic orbital. 

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